Personal Grave

You can find your personal gravesite in the Haduk Village at the location below:

The graveyard is marked by a yellow circle above and below is your grave:

I am not 100% on how it works... it either is whoever clicks on the grave first or whoever is the "host" of the game if you are playing in multiplayer but if you click on the grave you will see the name of your character (or another players character as mentioned above) my character's name is Sidhe (UU):